Question by lovelylady89: how can i stop being so jealous and upset over my sort of friends pregnancy?
I am currently TTC and I have a girlfriend who is currently 12 weeks pregnant. We are sort of friends, but more aquaintances. Well anyways she has always been into partying, sleeping around, drinking, doing crazy things. I am a homebody, happily married, and to me a fun time is reading. Complete opposites. Well she calls me up to tell me she is pregnant, and that she is thrilled. The dad is a one night stand whose name she doesn’t even know. It bugs me that she got pregnant so easy and I can’t. I have PCOS and so far no luck on the pregnancy front. She says it was a happy accident and that she’s excited for somebody to love her. I am happy for her, but insanely jealous. Why do the irresponsible selfish types always get knocked up so fast but then the people who truly want a baby it takes forever? I am bitter about it and also because she calls me up to talk about her pregnancy for like 2 hours straight and sometimes says hurtful things like, “well if u cant get pregnant u can always adopt” or “well i eat more fruits and veggies, so if u ate more like me ud prolly lose weight and get pregnant real fast”. it hurts so much I can barely stand it when she calls. How can I suck it up and support her?

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Answer by Victoria
I hate to say this and I’ll probably get thumbs down, but if she knows you are TTC, why does she call you for support? I have had friends in your shoes and I don’t offer any information or seek support unless they ask. If she’s leaning on you like that and making casually about you losing weight to get pregnant or adopting, why should you be the one to emotionally support her?
I know it’s best to help others but when it is emotionally damaging to you, you need to step away. Explain to her how it bothers you to discuss her pregnancy at length because of your own difficulties and ask her to please limit the baby conversations.
sorry I just can’t see how anyone could be that insensitive.

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Question by scooter: Anyone else frustrated with some of these TTC girls?
I come on here to try and help and read about people in similiar situations but get quickly annoyed by the “how can I get pregnant fast?” and “we’ve been trying two months, what’s wrong with me?” type questions! These girls have access to the Internet, why aren’t they doing research? Sorry if I sound like a B—-, just slightly annoyed.
Okay I figured I would get my butt chewed a little but you all are correct, I need to just ignore them and not answer! Which I don’t, but I won’t even click on ones that seem potentially annoying!

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Answer by L R
I dont like when it young teens on here saying they are having unprotected sex and think they are pregnant, there is a lot of dumb questions, but you know what you have to do!

Ignore um!

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Question by gaby: any success stories…?
I’ve been researching different methods that make u “get pregnant fast” and came upon a website. Childwish.com has anyone tried these pills, well the whole method. It sounds very promising but would like to kno if anyone has tried it with or without success….

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Answer by Juan
yes, the whole method works – my wife and i recently gave birth to twins, a boy and a girl. we used the get pregnant fast method and it worked, fast! couldn’t have been happier with deciding to use it, but it was my wife’s idea, so i’ll give her the credit : D

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For a lot of people the very thought of getting pregnant may seem too distant and difficult. This could happen after a couple of failed attempts to get pregnant. What they need at such a time is to know facts that could help them get pregnant fast and reinstate the confidence in themselves.

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Tip #1: Eat well

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Tip #5: Seek medical help if needed

In spite of making the best efforts and making many healthy changes in their lifestyle, there may be couples left asking the question on how to get pregnant fast for too long! This may be an indication that  a medical intervention is necessary. There are cases when either the female or the spouse may be having fertility problems which have to be treated so the couple can have a baby. In such cases, they must not hesitate to undergo the required medical treatments.